It arrives as a phone call, or as a two-line letter. "Ma'am, we are no longer able to meet your mother's needs."
And in that moment you understand two things at once: you have to find somewhere else, and you have no idea how long you have.
This page gives you the picture in half an hour instead of three weeks. In the United States you are on stronger ground than almost anywhere else, because transfer and discharge from a Medicare or Medicaid certified nursing home is governed by federal regulation.
1. There are only six lawful grounds
Under 42 CFR 483.15(c), a facility may transfer or discharge a resident only if:
- it is necessary for her welfare and her needs cannot be met in the facility;
- her health has improved enough that she no longer needs the services;
- the safety of other individuals is endangered;
- the health of other individuals would otherwise be endangered;
- she has failed to pay after reasonable and appropriate notice;
- the facility closes.
That is the complete list. "She is difficult", "the family complains", "we prefer private-pay residents" are not on it. And where the ground is welfare or safety, the reason must be documented in the medical record by her physician — for grounds 1 and 2, by her own physician.
2. What the notice must contain
The notice must be in writing, in a language she understands, and must state:
- the reason for the transfer or discharge;
- the effective date;
- the location to which she is being transferred;
- her right to appeal and how to do it;
- the name, address and phone number of the State Long-Term Care Ombudsman.
And the timing: at least 30 days in advance, except in narrow urgent situations.
A copy of the notice must also go to the Ombudsman. That is not optional — it is the facility's obligation, and it means someone independent knows.
3. The single most important fact
You can appeal, and in most states filing the appeal before the effective date stops the discharge while the appeal is pending.
Families lose placements because nobody told them this. The appeal goes to the state agency named on the notice, it is free, and you do not need a lawyer to file it. Note the deadline on the notice the day it arrives.
Two more protections worth knowing
- The facility must provide sufficient preparation and orientation for a safe and orderly transfer. Discharging someone to a homeless shelter, a motel, or an unwilling family is not that.
- Retaliation is prohibited. If the notice arrived shortly after you filed a grievance, put the two dates side by side in writing. Residents have the right to complain without reprisal.
4. The "hospital dump"
The most common version is not a letter. She goes to hospital, and the facility says it will not take her back.
Federal rules cover this too: a facility must have a bed-hold policy given to you in writing, and — this matters — when a Medicaid resident's bed-hold period expires, she is entitled to readmission to the next available bed in a semi-private room, if she still needs the services. Refusing readmission is a transfer, and it triggers the same notice and appeal rights.
If you hear "we don't have a bed for her", ask for it in writing and call the Ombudsman the same day.
5. The first 48 hours
- Get everything in writing — reason, effective date, destination, appeal instructions.
- Note the date you received it. The clock runs from there.
- File the appeal if there is any doubt. It is free, and it usually buys you time.
- Call the Long-Term Care Ombudsman. Free, independent, and they do this every week.
- Request a care plan meeting and ask what was tried before concluding her needs cannot be met — a medication review, a search for pain or infection, a behavioural consult. Many "we can't manage her" cases are untreated pain or a urinary tract infection.
- Start looking the same day, in parallel. Do not wait for the appeal outcome.
6. If money is the reason
If the ground is non-payment, this is a Medicaid problem, not a clinical one. Note that a facility may not discharge for non-payment while a Medicaid application is pending, and Medicaid can pay retroactively in most states. Getting the application filed changes the legal position immediately.
7. Search in parallel
Said plainly: even when you win the appeal, the relationship afterwards is often difficult. Time spent looking is not wasted time even if you stay.
Look outside your usual radius — families with thirty days routinely find that a facility twenty miles out has a bed now. And check staffing and inspection history before you commit: it is all public on Medicare Care Compare.
Curalune Care Help ($89) puts together, usually within 24 business hours, a shortlist of 3 to 5 facilities matched to her area and the level of care she now needs — with contacts, a message ready to send and the questions to ask. This is exactly the situation it exists for.
*General information, not legal advice. Admission, rates and availability are always confirmed by the facilities and the responsible agencies.*