Here is the single most misunderstood fact about paying for a nursing home in the United States: Medicare does not pay for long-term care. It covers short, skilled, rehabilitative stays after a qualifying hospital admission — up to 100 days, and fully only for the first 20. Once someone needs ongoing custodial care (help with dressing, toileting, eating, moving) the bill is roughly $8,000–11,000 a month, and it is paid privately until the money runs low enough for Medicaid to take over. Medicaid is the payer of last resort for long-term care, and the majority of nursing-home residents rely on it eventually.
That transition — from private pay to Medicaid — is called the spend-down, and doing it well can protect tens of thousands of dollars and a healthy spouse’s home. Doing it badly triggers penalties that leave a family paying out of pocket for months. This guide explains how it actually works.
Who qualifies: the income and asset tests
Medicaid long-term-care eligibility turns on two tests, both set at state level, so confirm your own state’s current-year figures.
Assets (the resource test). A single applicant generally must have no more than about $2,000 in countable assets. The word "countable" is where the whole game is played. Countable assets include cash, most bank and brokerage accounts, and second properties. Exempt (non-countable) assets typically include the primary home up to an equity limit (higher, or unlimited, when a spouse or dependent lives there), one car, personal belongings, a prepaid irrevocable funeral plan, and certain life-insurance policies with low face value.
Income. Rules vary by state — some cap monthly income, others let you "spend down" excess income on care. In practice, most of the resident’s monthly income (pension, Social Security) then goes toward the nursing-home bill, with Medicaid covering the shortfall and the resident keeping only a small monthly personal needs allowance.
How spend-down works — legally
Spend-down does not mean giving money away. Gifting is precisely what the look-back punishes (below). It means converting countable assets into exempt ones or into legitimate expenses, so that the resident crosses the eligibility line without wasting money. Common, allowable steps include:
- Paying off the mortgage, car loan or credit-card debt.
- Necessary home repairs or modifications (the exempt home can be improved).
- Buying an irrevocable pre-paid funeral and burial plan.
- Purchasing a reliable replacement vehicle (one car is exempt).
- Paying for medical and dental care not covered by insurance.
Every dollar spent this way is a dollar the family keeps the benefit of, instead of handing it to the nursing home at private rates.
The 5-year look-back — and what it penalises
When you apply for Medicaid long-term care, the agency reviews financial records for the 60 months (5 years) before the application date. Any asset transferred for less than fair market value in that window — a gift to a child, selling the house to a relative below value, "loaning" money without proper terms — creates a penalty period during which Medicaid will not pay, even though the person is otherwise eligible and broke.
The penalty length is calculated by dividing the amount given away by your state’s average monthly private-pay nursing-home cost. Give away $90,000 in a state where that average is $9,000, and you create a ten-month penalty. This is why well-meaning gifts — "we moved the house into the kids’ names to protect it" — are so damaging when done casually and too late.
Note: California eliminated its look-back for these purposes, and details differ elsewhere, so state-specific advice matters.
Protecting a healthy spouse
When one spouse enters a nursing home and the other stays in the community, federal spousal impoverishment rules prevent the at-home spouse from being left destitute. The community spouse can keep the home, one car, and a protected share of the couple’s countable assets — the Community Spouse Resource Allowance — plus a minimum monthly income. The exact figures update annually. Structuring the couple’s assets and income around these allowances, before applying, is often the single highest-value planning step available.
Estate recovery — the part families forget
After a Medicaid recipient dies, states are required to seek recovery of what Medicaid paid for long-term care, typically from the estate — most often the home. Exemptions and hardship waivers exist (for a surviving spouse, a disabled child, or a caregiver child who lived in the home). This is not a reason to avoid Medicaid; it is a reason to plan the home’s treatment deliberately rather than discover the claim later.
A practical order of operations
If long-term care is coming, the sequence that protects the most is usually: (1) get a clear picture of countable vs exempt assets today; (2) if there is a community spouse, understand the resource allowance before spending anything; (3) for larger estates, consult an elder-law attorney about the look-back before making any transfer; (4) build the nursing-home shortlist in parallel, filtering for homes that are Medicaid-certified and accept new Medicaid residents — because a home that takes you as a private payer but will not keep you after conversion is a trap.
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Frequently asked questions
Can I give my house to my children to qualify for Medicaid?
Not without risk. A transfer for less than fair value inside the 5-year look-back creates a penalty period. There are legal ways to protect a home (a caregiver-child exemption, a spouse in residence, certain trusts), but a casual gift shortly before applying usually backfires. Get elder-law advice before transferring anything.
How much money can you keep and still qualify?
A single applicant is generally limited to about $2,000 in countable assets, but exempt assets — the home up to an equity limit, one car, personal belongings, a prepaid funeral — do not count. A community spouse keeps considerably more under spousal-impoverishment rules. Confirm your state’s current figures.
Does Medicare ever pay for long-term nursing home care?
No. Medicare pays only for short-term skilled care after a qualifying hospital stay (up to 100 days, fully for 20). Ongoing custodial long-term care is paid privately, by long-term-care insurance, or by Medicaid once eligible.
What happens if we did an improper transfer already?
It is not always fatal. Sometimes the asset can be returned to "cure" the penalty, or the penalty can be planned around. An elder-law attorney can often restructure the situation — the worst move is to hide it, because the look-back review will find it.